Dear Auntie Kate:

I am a 16 year old boy from England. I have had plenty of girlfriends and would consider myself fairly attractive. However I suddenly find myself in awe of my 15 year old cousin Elly. When we were younger she made no secret that she fancied me-this was before puberty- I was flattered but didn't think much of it. Since then, ahe has developed into one of the most beautiful girls I have ever seen, probably more attractive than any other girl I have been out with. As well as looks, our personalities are very similar we share similar opinions. My dilemma is this: do I tell Elly I fancy her in the chance that we could have a wonderful relationship, or do I say nothing so as to not ruin the friendly plutonic relationship we already have ??????
I would appreciate any advice !!!!!!!

What indications are there that she fancies me ?:

1. We are really good friends-she pays more attention to me than to her other cousins.
2. While, for example, swimming, she is always all over me.
3. She is always looking at me, trying to catch my eye.
4. She asks me all the time about my love life.
5. She stares for example, if I am taking my shirt off.
6. She has said before that she wishes I wasn't her cousin

The only thing is, she could have any bloke she wants she is so orgeous. I need to know if she fancies me otherwise I cannot tell her how I feel. Does it sound like she fancies me ???????