Dear Auntie Kate:
When I was 17 and a little beyond I had an affair with my cousin and now we are in our late thirties and early forties and lately just about every night I am having dreams about him. Is this natural? He's my first cousin.
 



 

Natual to say the least,  I would suggest if you both are not attached and are not in a relationship at this time, give him a call, see what he is up to and if you live close by one another ask him out to dinner or in for dinner, just like Auntie Kate would say you won't know what the temperature of the water is unless you first stick your toe into it and try it out.
 
 

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