Hi, i'm a 14 year old female who likes her cousin (2nd). He is the same age as me and we do allot together, we wrestle as in playing and we do allot of flirting. I told my best friend how we act around each other and she said that he likes me but I'm not convinced. I want to tell him how I feel but at the same time I want him to tell me his feelings. What should I do to make him speak his feelings?
 
 

Dear Feelings,

Take it from your old Auntie that any young man of fourteen that finds a young women that wrestle with him and flirts with him and not be girlish and possessive, is very lucky. Yes, he does like you allot. Fourteen ia a difficult age for young men, they are under enormous peer pressure to "talk the talk and walk the walk", but they are just developing the physique, character and emotional skills that will take them into manhood. Tell him that you think he's great, that you want to be with him and that as you grow up together, you always want to be his buddy and sweetheart. He'll be in love forever.
 

Aunt Kate