Dear Auntie Kate:My problem is I had a fling with my 2nd cousin about three years ago. It lasted about two weeks and then we went are separte ways. We live in different states so I've only seen him two times since. The first time lead to making out and the last it seemed we couldn't keep are eyes off of eachother. We didn't touch because I was married at the time. I want your oppinon on me trying to get back together with him. I have a daughter now and I don't know if that's a problem and the other thing is I've lost contact with him so I don't even know where he is. I'm not to close to my family so If I called them up they would know something was going on. Please help!!!!!!
Oh dear. It does happen so easily, doesn't it. There are a few little unanswered questions in your mail dear, that would reall effect the advice I gave you.
If you are still married, forget this cousin and concentrate on the promises of love, committment and honour that you have made. Take them seriously and they will be very rewarding.
If you are unmarried, well dear, the hunt is on! Yes, you should ask your favourite auntie (other than this one) how to find your cousin. No dear, you're right. I wouldn't start with "I want to jump his bones!" A little descrete question like "I allways liked Frankie. What's he doing these days?" wouldn't be out of place. Just call your auntie (or cousin, or uncle, or mother as a last resort) and chit chat about family and toss that extra little quetion in! You'll have the skinny on him in no time at all.
If you're just too shy for that, well dear, track him down using that internet thing-a-me-jig. You might find him that way.
Good luck Dearest!
Your
Aunt Kate
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