Dear Auntie Kate:

To make matters worse, he wants me to have an abortion. (Even offered  the ride there.) I don't even know him anymore. He has changed from that wonderful man by my side to a stranger who must be full of hate.  He said he can't go against the way he was raised but that's a little to late!! I just  want him home. I will do whatever he wants because I want him to love me  forever. Help... How can we be together and him be as fulfilled as I once  was? and if I can't have him back now, I will pray to the gods for it forever.

How do I show him love is pure and our love can be as pure as we make it?
 
 
 

Oh Dear,

I think dear, that my advice was good advice. I'm so sorry that have been hurt. Turn to your family and dearest friends. If this man has been so cruel, I'm not sure if the relationship is salvageable no matter how much you love him.

I wrote a letter about pregnancies and abortions earlier, you might want to read "I'm 18 and pregnant", I think it's letter number 41 or so. You do have hard decisions to make. Maybe my letter "He is in the army and he is 18 I am 14" would be good as well. I understand dear that you are still desperately in love with this man. Unfortunately, a debt of love is one that can't be collected. You just can't make him love you. But you can make him do the right thing by his child. I don't know if you are still speaking to this fellow, but a debt of support and obligation to an unborn child should be collected. You must ask him for his help and support. If he refuses, you should see a good attorney and have the attorney use the law to get you and your child out of dire circumstances. If you have no resources, see the social agencies in your state. This is very hurtful, I know. My heart cries for you.

Oh dear, I am so sorry. Do let me know how it works out.

Your

Aunt Kate