My cousin is a hot babe. Would it be wrong to have sex with her a few times?

Dear JJ

Well, yes and no.  It would be very wrong to abuse your role as her cousin to seduce your cousin simply for sexual purposes. It would be wrong to use any relationship of closeness and trust just for that reason.

On the other hand, if you and your cousin are consenting adults and both genuinely desire more (*blush*) intimacy, it would be a different situation.  Your old auntie knows that trust, affection and love sometimes are expressed by physical intimacy, and sometimes are built by physical intimacy. What's important is your desire. Not your physical desire, but your desire for love, affection and intimacy.

I'm sure JJ, that you know exactly what I mean and you won't hurt your cousin or yourself just for that. Magazines are cheap, and you are supposed to through them away when you are done.  Women, especially women you have life long relationships with deserve better treatment.

Have you ever thought she might be a hot babe because you really feel something soft, warm and lovely when you see her?
 

   Your
     Aunt Kate